You are never too old to wear Spandex

I'm a junkie for wardrobe-improvement shows like What Not To Wear, in which fashionably superior women or gay men take people with poor fashion sense and teach them how to dress with class and age-appropriateness. Yet I have come to understand that Trinny and Susana's fashion choices simply don't apply in Israel.

For one thing, "age-appropriate" here seems to be defined like this: the older you are, the harder you have to work to flaunt your sex appeal. Otherwise how will anyone notice you?

The picture on the left is of Tsipi Shavit, a beloved Israeli performer for whom I have huge respect. I saw her as part of a three-woman show in Kiryat Chaim recently, and at 62 years old she sparked with energy-- doing high kicks, singing show tunes, running around the stage, cracking jokes about her sex life. My husband remembers Tsipi from his childhood when she became famous for her kids shows (and Hebrew translations of songs like "Somewhere Over the Rainbow). From an American perspective, this picture would land her on a worst-dressed list. In Israel, this would be appropriate wedding attire (and reminds me of what some Israelis wore to my wedding).

Israel is a country of schizophrenic dichotomies. In certain neighborhoods of Jerusalem and Bet Shemesh, a woman can get beaten for wearing pants or (gasp!) jogging in the wrong neighborhood. After all, nothing is more provocative than a smelly, sweaty woman in a sports bra and a baggy t-shirt. In secular areas, on the other hand, it seems like the more (spotty, sun-damaged) skin you show, the better. "Proper work attire" might involve skin-tight, cleavage-bearing purple spandex. I'm only slightly exaggerating when I say that what slutty college girls wear to frat parties in the US is average attire for 50-year-old bank tellers here.

And the thing is that it's all about context-- while you might look sad and desperate in America wearing the same clothing, you'll look snazzy to your friends in Israel. If a middle-aged woman wears silver mesh over a black bra, tight embroidered jeans, and silver platform shoes in the US, she'll look like an aging hooker-- in Israel, she'll look like she really keeps herself up. If she, on the other hand, wears loose-fitting button-down shirts with a cardigan and straight-legged linen pants, she will probably look boring to her Israeli friends. (She's really let herself go.) Also, Israelis don't let a few fat folds keep them from wearing a bikini or spandex top-- and if you're male, certainly don't stop wearing your Speedo just because you can't see your toes.

I'm curious about what "What Not to Wear" would look like if it came to Israel. It would either involve a total reformation of Israeli fashion sense (Israelis love to critique each other and believe most things are done better outside Israel) or it would embrace Israeli sensibilities. I can see "Trinny and Shoshana" now: "No, no, you must wear POLYESTER to bring out your eyes!"


  1. Well said! Very funny, but unfortunately so true.

  2. From my wonderful mother-in-law (who subscribes by e-mail and possibly doesn't realize I have a web version of this blog :)--

    All you said is true,but in Tsipi Shavit case I just want to add something. When Tsipi was in her twenties she was very heavy . It was a big struggle for her to stay thin. I think that rightly so she is very proud of her ability to stay thin for so many years and she wants to show it of. I think she looks great.

    And btw, this picture is a few years old-- when I saw Shavit, she was even skinner but in a very healthy way. She looks like she has more energy than I do at 25!!

  3. Now here is a thought for you: combine the Israeli sense of fashion, and the Israeli attitude of always being an expert and always being right. I suspect that of Trinnie and Susanna came to Israel, they would find themselves facing a bunch of middle-aged Israeli women telling them what THEY were doing wrong. ;)

  4. At the same time, people in Israel (especially in TLV) tend to dress in a modern way. It's not like in the US where an average person wears 1970s clothes if they feel like it and no one would care. if there's a big trend in Israel, everyone owns it - from babies to grandmothers. It's insane

  5. Very true! We definitely get trends before the US, and we get them hard :)

  6. Hilarious! It's nice to be back on your blog again . . . for a while there, I was having trouble loading it. I PROMISE I will not wear this when I'm 60 . . . unless I'm in Israel. :)

  7. Oh but what fun it was to reread this blog especially now that Trinny and Susannah HAVE come to Israel. Whoever would have thought they would have done so when you first wrote this? Please let me know if you are writing elsewhere as I'd love to continue following you. Thanks so much, Lisa (Find me at lisb@bezeqint.net)

  8. lady I love you...you speak my mind! After living here for almost a year...the same things have aggravated me about Israelis and the description you give is entirely accurate! Some people may think us Americans are egocentric, harsh and critical, but I like to just say that we have higher standards in many regards-namely our puritan work ethic, more tasteful fashion sense, etiquette, and driving right.


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